She prefers the company of men in any social setting and openly flirts in a rather innocent and childlike way. She has no need for emotional depth to her relationships and prefers the surface attractions, the moles and wrinkles of appearances, rather than the viscera of human emotion. Friendship and companionship are more important than close emotional ties, and often-platonic relationships with men and keeping friendly with ex-lovers is the easiest way to maintain her freedom and ensure an easy-going existence.
She can be so frank, that discussing her ex-boyfriends' intimate inclinations can sound like boasting to your ear, when she was only just letting you know how absurd she finds the whole sexual game. She doesn't mean to hurt anyone, never means to upset or put down a friend, and will end up confused and embarrassed by her own big mouth.
To be so confident, to be so sure that a relationship will work as long as she has her freedom, is a bonus to any partnership. Communicating inner emotions and deeper tensions is not part of her vocabulary and that's why she often confuses love with casual friendship. Sex is also not to be confused with love, and she can have a strong physical relationship with a man and just be good friends.
If she's kept you up all night at a dinner-party, played the life and soul, flirted with your dad, and hardly noticed your jealousy, don't expect her to apologize. Her mind is set, and her morals are high, but she does like to have fun, her own way. If you want her to do anything, always ask nicely, never order her or tell her. She won't be bossed, in public or in private, or in bed. Don't trap this incurable romantic. Don't question her and you'll find her free love is all for you.
